6:46 p.m. on June 7, 2012 (EDT)
There is one other factor common to successful businesses and people, that was left off the list: Fate has treated them kindly.
I have known many many small business owners, idea people, and talented artists. I have seen plenty of well executed, sound, concepts fail for no fault of the owners. Some folks think success a matter of intelligently asserting themselves in the world. They are fond of saying “We are the masters of our own destinies,” a quip whose root trace back to poet W.H. Henley’s “I am the master of my fate.” Tell that to the ocean sail boat skipper! If we have any level of self determination, it is subordinate to the proverb “But for the grace of God goes I” a quio based on John Bradford’s musing upon sighting prisoners being lead to execution: “But for the grace of God goes John Bradford." Indeed often it seems our influence over destiny is illusionary, that we have about as much control as a child behind the steering wheel of his toddler car seat. The fact is the fraternal twin of success is failure, and which twin are we many times is the result of fate.
The only way to avoid lighting strikes is to stay hidden beneath the rock one cowers under, only to risk being flooded out of your recess. But if you want to accomplish anything, one must engage their surrounding, which opens one up to risk, much of which is predicated by fate, striking random as a bolt of lightning or lucky as the lottery. Who would have guessed back in 2000 that the economy of 2012 would be such a mess, ruining so many previously sound businesses, careers, and lives?
Fate can have profound influence. I know one person who was set for huge successes. They had a bunch of great concepts, the necessary skills, access to resources to make any of them happen, and connections. But then they got t-boned big time in a auto accident, house wrecked in an earthquake, a child born retarded, lost everything they owned in a second house destroyed by brush fire, divorced, downsized out of jobs several times, and beset by a string of serious, ongoing, health issues to contend with. So instead of living in a house on the hill, or even a condo in a decent burb, this person has been struggling to get off Square One all of their adult life.
Likewise some folks blunder haphazardly into good fortune, despite themselves. I have a friend who is basically a space case. He is smart, but struggles with basic functions in the real world. Can’t remember dates, but refuses to use an organizer tool. He would misplace his head if it weren’t attached to his shoulders. Inattentive and more easily distracted than an Irish Setter. After college he ended up working as a restaurant server or counter person in several delis, back in the 1980s, when it was relatively easy for a college grad to get a good job. One day fate literally walks in the door, introduces himself: “Hello I am Mr. Successful Opportunity. A new, obscure technology advent has just occurred, it is in high demand, it is easy to learn, and makes tons more money than what you are doing, and I will set you up.” Then he ends up working for someone who owns one of these businesses, who happens to suddenly need to retire, and has no one better suited to sell it to than my friend. Then as owner he has the good fortune of the major competitor in his market deciding to divest from this field, so my friend's business instantly grows fifty fold. As if that is not enough, a rich who’s-who aunt from San Francisco with no heirs leaves him a vast fortune in prime SF real estate and thousands of shares of Coke stocks kept in the family since the 1930s. Yea, he has managed not to squander it all, but come on! I would be grateful for just one of his many strokes of good fortune. In his own words, even his screw ups are golden (his last name is Golden). And then there are the Brittany Spears and Boy Band celebs whose major efforts facilitating their success include wining the genetic lottery, some plastic surgery, and showing up on time for the photo shoot. Lucky breaks can be worth millions. Face it, even Hillary climbing Everest needed lots of luck to pull it off.
So while those of us who have accomplished good fortune like to attribute it all to hard work and acuity, the truth is we also have luck working for us when it counts. A alledged Roman era quote observe: "All glory is fleeting." Thus regardless of what one does, they are best off measuring their personal success by how close they live life to their principles, and how they treat others.
Ed