6:06 p.m. on April 21, 2011 (EDT)
guyd, I have always just keep the pot, stove, cup together and put them someplace convenient in the back pack. It depends if it is the last of first thing out of the pack when we stop for the day (or for lunch). For two of us (or solo), a quart (or so pot) forms the foundation of the kit:
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You certainly don't need titanium, but it was a present (don't forget the hints to well heeled relatives and friends). A small canister of gas fuel, and Pocket Rocket or Snow Peak fits inside with a lighter and a pot grabber. A couple of cups and spoons and we are ready to go. We still have and use the decades old nesting aluminum set. My wife luxuriates in an old aluminum pot (maybe 3 cup size) with a lid that she claims boils better water for tea. Our old plastic cups nest together and have a measured cup mark scratched on the inside and fit inside her fav pot. We used to have a cozy bag that kept them from messing up the inside of the pack and rattling around and it doubled as a pot holder. We gave that up when we could not longer use wood fires. My wife carries the pots and pans. I always know where she is. Much better than bear bells. As we churn our way through the bear canister, and as room becomes available, the cook kit goes in the canister. Only because it takes up less pack volume there and is where you will need it.
The cook kit goes near a flat rock convenient to the 'camp' when we unpack for the day and stays there until we leave. It is convenient in case visitors drop in for an impromptu chat, tea and cocoa. For all these years we have never known (suspected maybe but not sure) to have had an intruder checking it out for smells. We wash things up every night and leave them out in the open to air dry. The bear canister we usually keep close to camp in the Sierra (not elsewhere) in full view. It appears to be a deterrent to the smart ones that know not to waste time on it.
If we go on winter (or on longer trips) we upgrade to a larger pot (if we need to melt snow), MSR Dragonfly, and a couple of jugs of liquid fuel. Under some duress we will take other cooking utensils such as a small fry pan combination with a small oven. But that is grandiose. Usually we are too tired or distracted to go look around to do a lot of cooking. Besides my job is clean up. We normally have a hot lunch and a good relaxing rest.
You won't be molested by a bear on the trail anymore than you will by the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. In my case, for either, I don't have anything they want or would go out of their way for. While on the trail, pack the trail snacks in a convenient place so you can get to them. A shirt pocket or a side pocket on the pack or inside if you need to carry them there. My shirt pocket is usually full of all kinds of edibles. I'm sure the shirt smells good to a critter but haven't had it carried off or chewed upon - ever. I'd suggest you maintain better habits, however. We pack all the debris along with all the other garbage we collect in a stuff sack - for convenience a RED one- for the bear can at night. I won't pick up discarded tissues on the trail, however.
We generally keep things well organized and protected. In the northwest it is the jays you have to wary of. They will take on anybody and thing for a free meal. If a bear is in the area - you can usually hear the whooping and hollering from other camps if you are on a popular trail -, we are a bit more cautious. We've never had to discuss a meal with a bear. While fishing I've had to back away from my catch when approached by a black bear. I report those incidents to whomever is controlling the area. Some will argue over whose catch it is and will be injured.
Bears (and some humans), normally shy creatures, take advantage of opportunities. An unattended day pack on the trail, or a cooler in a car camp, is considered an opportunity. It is so rare that a bear (N. American black bear) attacks a human without provocation that it makes worldwide news. If you leave the stuff they are looking for (food) un-protected, they assume it has been abandoned and is their's. Don't try to take it back, because once they have it, it IS theirs. No question about it.
There used to be a suggestion that you set up camp on one end of a triagle with 100' on a side. You sleep at one point, you cook at another and you store food in the third. That seems to be very conservative and over reacting with black bears in N. America. Our usual "triangle" might have 10' sides.
If you are in grizzly country (only a few places in the lower 49) most of above applies but you have additional true risks and concerns you should be aware of. Ask the people in the area and try to sort out the legends from the real facts.