8:42 p.m. on March 22, 2007 (EDT)
Thanks Bill (I think you were being complementary).
As a newbie who still hasn't made it out on an overnighter, and who originally wanted to do this solo, I can only advise that this stuff almost has to just fall in your lap the right way to turn out the way you want it to. That's probably a lot of generalization, but in my case I find it to be pretty accurate.
I knew a lot of the equipment I needed to start out with. I just didn't know about the technical equipment. I had owned a true backpack tent since the early seventies, and used it, though not for backpacking. So upgrading what equipment I had already, either because of its age, or because it was more car-camping types, meant reading and reading and more reading and then asking.
My health was the real surprise, though, so far. When I started asking questions here, I was a two pack a day smoker, and really didn't feel that bad. Since then, I have quit smoking, had a physical (probably the first in 15 years), starting taking cholesterol, triglyceride, and blood pressure medication, and can't seem to control my weight. I hike with a hiking club, and find I really don't have my wind yet, and don't know why my weight is staying up.
I have overplanned everything, and feel I'm ready to take off once I get the time (my wife is totally disabled, so I need to plan around that - things like how long, where and how far away, etc). I have changed my mind about the solo stuff for now, and agree with the "pick other's brain" idea to tailor my own ideas. I'll probably end up solo, though.
What I have discovered is that every thing about this sport/hobby is so unique and individual. No two people will do things alike, and though there are accepted ways to do certain things, everybody will mold each thing to be their own. For instance, I know some who find long trails only to hike in a few miles to set up camp for a few days and never, ever finish the trail. I know some who carry all their water they will need, while others use filters and carry only what they need to get them to the next watering hole.
Just look at any question asked here and you will see a mix of answers so varied, that you wonder how flame wars aren't started. But all experienced hikers seem to know that there is no "right" answer. Sure there are wrong answers, but most of the advice you receive here can be molded into something your own.
Take what you are offered here, and consider each morsel of knowledge. You'll soon find that you are making decisions based on what you have heard, and learned on your own.
Sorry for the windiness, but it's been a while since I piped in.
Blackbeard